Zindagi mein kuch zakham aise hote hain jo chahe kitne bhi saal guzar jaayein, kabhi nahi bharte. Khwaja Sira community ke bohot se log apni zindagi ki shuruaat hi dard aur tanaa’iyon ke saaye mein karte hain۔ Unhi mein se ek ne apni maa ko ek aisi chitthi likhi jo insaaniyat ko jhunjhond kar rakh deti hai۔
Khat ki shuruaat kuch yun hoti hai:
“Ami Jaan, jab main sirf 2 saal ka tha to Abu ne mujhe zameen par ghasit kar ghar se nikal diya tha۔ Main cheekh kar aapko pukarta raha, lekin aap chup rahi۔ Us waqt aapne mujhe gale kyun nahi lagaya؟ Kya main aap ke liye itna bekaar tha?”
Yeh alfaaz sirf ek shikayat nahi, balke poore society ke liye aik sawal hain۔ Hum sab sochte hain ke maa ki god sabse mehfooz jagah hoti hai, lekin jab wohi god inkaar kar de to bacha kahan jaaye؟
Is chitthi mein woh bachpan ki tanhai, be-basi aur dukh likha gaya jo ek khwaja sira ne seh kar apni zindagi guzaari۔ Saal guzar gaye, zindagi aage badh gayi, lekin us waqt ki cheekh aaj tak dil mein goonjti hai۔
Khwaja Sira ka kehna tha ke:
“Main aapse nafrat nahi karta, Ami Jaan۔ Bas chaahta hoon ke aap mujhe samjhein, mujhe qabool karein۔ Guzra hua waqt wapas nahi aayega, lekin hum dono milkar ek nayi shuruaat kar sakte hain۔ Mujhe sirf ek garam muskaan aur aapka saath chahiye۔”
Yeh blog sirf ek khwaja sira ki kahani nahi, balke un sab logon ka dukh hai jo apne gharon mein hi ajnabi ban jaate hain۔ Samaj unhein kabhi izzat nahi deta، aur afsos ke kabhi kabhi maa baap bhi unhein apnane se inkaar kar dete hain۔
Is chitthi ka paighaam yeh hai ke:
- Har bacha apni maa ke pyar ka haqdar hai، chahe woh ladka ho, ladki ho ya khwaja sira۔
- Maa baap ke liye yeh zaroori hai ke woh apne bacho ko samajhne ki koshish karein, unhein tanha na chhodein۔
- Guzra waqt wapas nahi aata، lekin mohabbat aur qabooliyat se naye rishton ki buniyad rakhi jaa sakti hai۔
Aaj hum sab ko apne dil se yeh sawal karna chahiye: “Kya hum apne ghar ke har bache ko usi pyar aur izzat se dekhte hain jiske woh haqdar hain؟”